with modernizaton comes modern expectations. taiwan women have a right to want more than these traditional, pig-headed men of the past. but the standard can swing too far the other way, too.
last night i had a smaller class than usual, so we had more chat time, less formal (not that my classes are ever like that). we got around to talking about what girls like in guys. of my 7 students, 5 ladies and 2 guys, ALL the girls said they expected their future mate to be tall.
while i am well aware of tall being a handsome trait, i pressed the question further- why?
the response i got was pretty shocking. it was, to me, as cold, pragmatic,and calculating as any i've ever heard come from a woman's mouth.
the answer: " so my children can be tall"!!
these women want good genes! they're picking a guy based on his genetic material/potential.
of course, evolution/sex theory has always said we do this, subconsciously. but here was the first time i'd ever heard anybody consciously on the cruise for good DNA.
i find that taiwan women tend to think of men as "fitting a slot"., ie " i need a husband", this person can fit this slot, rather than " i really like this guy. i want to be with him".
people become pegs that can fit into their little holes (fruedian slip intended). pegs that fit into their preconcieved ideas and goals.
the kind of cold hearted answer i heard last night makes me almost want to, in the words of a friend of mine, "find as many women as i can and [revenge] fuck them without mercy!"
it makes me want to put lifts in my shoes, say i'm not married, and go around catching every one of these bitches i can at their own game. find 'em, fool 'em , use 'em, forget 'em.
i can understand if women find tall to be attractive. but sighting a guy out for his genetic potential, just so you can have tall kids to brag about? fuck you bitch!
for all their talk about career, blah, blah, blah, these women are still breeders.
i heard that all women really want is love. do these kind of women really deserve that?
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>i can understand if women find tall to be attractive. but sighting a guy out for his genetic potential
ReplyDeleteThis makes no sense. If anything, their answer is at least less selfish that just wanting someone tall because they look good. It means they're thinking about their posterity as opposed to just thinking about satisfying their personal aesthetic (read: sexual) desires.
Anyway, you forgot to ask a few crucial questions: (1) would they stick with a man with "good genes" even if they had no feelings toward him? (2) if they met someone who was short and who they liked, would they give him a chance?
>but here was the first time i'd ever heard anybody consciously on the cruise for good DNA.
Uh ... sperm/egg donation? That's about as conscious and unemotional as you can get and it's been around for a while.
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ReplyDelete(I don't think hyperbole like "taiwan women's merciless standard" is justified without first soliciting the answers to those questions I mentioned.)
ReplyDeletethe whole thing i stupid, because a gene may be recessive, meaning it SKIPS a generation! so then you passed up a really good guy cause you thought you'd have kids to brag about.
ReplyDeleteserves these bitches right.
I had a similar conversation with my teenage students once. We were talking about basketball so I showed them a slide of players and the issue of height came up. Not only did boys cite the magic number of 180cm as the height they all dreamed of attaining but they were convinced that (they had it on good authority that...)playing basketball made you much taller. My heart bled as I listened to 15-year old, 4'10'' Eason, as he explained further.
ReplyDeletea lot of stuff in taiwan is a self repeating nmem. they never stop to question any info they recieve.
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